Congratulations graduates! We are all so very proud of you.
Best wishes for your career ahead!
In an ideal world your transition from college student to working professional world be seamless. If for some reason that is not the case, you may start doubting your choices “Maybe I chose the wrong major”, or “ why did I wait so long to start looking for a job”.
You’ve heard it before: the economy sucks!! Finding a job where you are actually putting your degree to use is going to me hard (damn near impossible). Hell finding a job waiting on tables is going to be hard too (much harder than you would have ever imagined). On top of dealing with finding a job and the upcoming student loan payments the are looming, I also want to prepare you for the family scrutiny.
Be prepared to be bombarded with:
What kind of job does a degree in (insert current degree) get you?
How are your students loans- this is just my opinion but I believe anyone who asks you this question should make a payment toward said loan
Don’t you wish you had majored in (insert degree that you don’t have)?
What are your future plans –Polite but still being nosy. You know very well my future plan is to find a JOB
Then of course you're gonna run into a few people with a memory lapse so 3 days later they're still going to ask you: Did you find a job yet?
You may one day eventually avoid family functions so you don’t run into these folks and have to endure their questions. I’m praying it doesn’t come to this for you but if it does, its happened to the best of us.
Also keep in mind these are the same people who helped you celebrate by attending your graduation and gave you those envelopes filled with money .Be gentle! Try not to say the first thing that comes to mind although I would not hold it against you.