In an effort not to become a side chick or to be in a relationship with somebody’s husband I’ve had to develop a side -chick checklist when dealing with someone new.
No pictures please- I personally don’t like taking pictures but when dealing with someone new I look for opportunities to take picture. Will he be ok with having photographic evidence of our date or the fact that he’s spending time with me?
Prime Time Calling Hours- What time of the day does he call? Does he only call/text driving into work or while at work. If he’s only talking/texting me between the hours of 9 to 5 (work hours) Red Flag Why cant you speaking to me after the sun sets?
Advance Notice- How much advance notice does he need before we can go out. I’ve been known to create last minutes dates/outing to see how flexible he is. Do you have to check-in with the wife before saying yes to a date with me?
Public Records- Once I have your government name I’m checking public records. Did you own a home? I can easily go to my city county appraisal office website and find out who you own the home with.
Keep in mind the checklist should be an ongoing process, from the time you exchange numbers or first date until your ultimately married to him yourself.
Did I miss anything? What’s on your side-chick check list?